5) The acceptance of reality
Here, denial and
manipulation are replaced by a willingness to see 'what is' because
there is trust in 'what is'. The fear of death, for example, no longer
infuses political conflict and life in general, because life and death
are seen to be part of a sacred process of continual renewal, and
extreme measures do not have to be taken to avoid death or the
consciousness of death. This shift affects many of the personal
elements of life that give rise to political debate - issues concerning
health and ageing in particular. Industries that are based on the
collective fear of ageing no longer have a place, for their
consciousness becomes part of an obsolete need to prevent or deny the
ageing process. This no longer has merit or validity.
The denial of death and of ageing, so
pervasive in modern culture, is
but one half of a tendency toward denial that relates to life as well.
For in the separation from God's reality, there is also a separation
from a more natural way of living in which what
is, is perceived as
good. Ageing has the possibility of being viewed in this way as does
death. This is not the view commonly held today but is a view held by
those who perceive life as sacred and who view it as held within the
natural order of light. If a culture needs to deny the importance and
sacredness of death, it will also need to deny the importance and
sacredness of life. If it has the capacity for honoring or celebrating
death as part of a cycle of renewal, it will also have the capacity for
honoring and celebrating the seasons of life, including the time of
getting older. If one leaves the circle of life, selecting only certain
parts to honor and other parts to reject, then those rejected parts
will, by virtue of the fact that life is a circle, interrupt the
continuity of the circle and limit the capacity for an experience of
beauty and sacredness within the whole.
Factors that foster the operation of denial and rejection of 'what is',
include:
- Fear of dying - caused by loss of the
conviction that life
is ongoing and that God is real.
- Vanity
Vanity may be defined as 'the glorification of glamour and external
representations of beauty which are based on beliefs and motives that
have departed from the sacred'. It is found in the conditioned values
of a society that obscure what is truly
valuable, while amplifying
false values that have popular appeal. Such false values are often in
the position of creating economic benefit for a few. They also have the
power to amplify whatever exists within the self of shame and ugliness
and to detract from the perception of inner beauty and depth. The
motive of vanity operates to the extent that there is a disconnect from
the experience of a deeper self. Then, it is primarily the surface self
which appears to others that seems to have the greatest value.
- A sense of inner fragility
Here, too, disconnection from awareness of the deeper self
causes the feeling that one cannot handle the truth - that emotionally,
there are certain things that are too difficult to bear. The perception
of life or emotions as 'unbearable' exists to the degree that we hold
things alone. With God and through an experience of God's love, things
that seem unbearable can be borne.
- Unhealed portions of the
self that are rejected and
repressed
Here, the ego operates protectively and causes conscious awareness to
forget or to not notice certain things because the inner experience of
what is rejected is too painful. As in Principle 3), truth may be
hidden behind a layer of falseness due to an inner rejection of pain,
and so what is real and true goes into hiding.
Resolution within the experience of truth:
When the self
experiences life as of Divine origin and as infused in all aspects by
God, then what is false or self-created due to motives arising out of
fear and rejection will no longer be tolerated or given great value.
That which is of Divine origin has a value surpassing all others, and
the revelation of truth brings into consciousness the ultimate,
irreducible value of life so that the desire to alter it into another
pattern seems unnecessary and without merit.