6) The elimination of violence
Based on an
understanding that 'my' life is not separate from 'yours', the basis
for war and killing is undermined. There can be no killing if 'you are
not separate from me' and if 'I am you'. The basis for all violence is
undermined as a result of the perception of unity.
Factors that foster the operation of denial and rejection of 'what is',
include:
- Helplessness
The perception of helplessness and the need to counteract it through
direct action which creates a feeling of empowerment is the primary
basis for all forms of aggression. An inability to tolerate
helplessness is the cause, in its many forms, for despair that becomes
rage, for desperation that becomes a lashing out at others, and for the
pleasure in cruelty that masks the truer and deeper sense of having
lost an essential part of oneself - one's heart and one's capacity to
love. Helplessness is the single most important feeling and perception
that contributes to the willingness to act out toward others and, in
particular, the willingness to take the life of another.
- Lack of trust in Divine justice
In addition to helplessness, lack of trust in Divine justice creates a
desire to usurp power and to 'take measures into one's own hands'. The
perception that Divine justice is real and that the Law of Cause and
Effect operates on all levels, all of the time, takes the burden of
responsibility off human shoulders to mete out an exact measure of
response to an act of harm or injustice, and leaves it, instead, to the
Divine court of law to address issues in which harm has been caused to
others. This is not to say that the level of human law is without
importance. Only that the impetus and motivation to take things into
one's own hands in order to seek revenge, to release long-standing
energies of rage at the way one has been treated, or to seek power that
will be admired by others - or any of the other many motives of a
similar nature that can operate - such motivations are reduced or
eliminated if Divine justice is perceived as certain and direct, and if
the Law of Cause and Effect is firmly established within each heart.
- Separation from others
Violence in all forms is also based on separation from others and a
sense that others are less
real
than oneself. This perception is
contributed to by the increasing distortion and blurring of the
boundary between reality and fantasy that is promoted by media-images
that are everywhere today, worldwide. It is also contributed to by the
willingness of people to not remember their own true sense of morality
in favor of what is popular or what is held to be commonly acceptable.
What is a true perception of the suffering of others can only arise
when those others are perceived as deeply real, and not as cartoon
characters, or figures in a news broadcast, or as 'other' from oneself.
Resolution through the capacity to feel pain and to hold the suffering
of all:
The capacity to
feel pain and to hold the suffering of all comes from the possibility
of holding these within the consciousness of God's love toward all
beings - toward oneself, and toward others who suffer greatly.
The direct perception of God's
heart surrounding situations that are the source of great suffering,
allows pain, both within and outside the self, to be held with a sense
of peace rather than with a sense of protest. Without the perception of
God's love tenderly holding all suffering with the individual
who is
feeling it, there is the need to either turn away from pain or to feel
that something has to be done about it. With the perception
of God's
love, pain, helplessness, and the causes of suffering that turn into
violence can be held within the self without having to be converted
into external action of any kind.